Time will heal all wounds

That's what people always say.  But how much time.  It's been awhile for me, and still, I still think about it at least once a day.  Just the other night I had a dream and I woke up feeling hurt and betrayed.  I can't help but be hurt and sad everytime I think about it.  I try to block it whenever the thought starts to arise but I can't help it.


When will it end?  When will I be able to totally put this all behind me and get on with my life?  Friends say it's up to me and I'm the one who's not letting myself go.  


I've been good this year and for the last two years.  How come I can't get what I want most for Christmas?  Or maybe, it's just because I don't know what I want.

Merry X'mas!

Merry X'mas!  I doubt there are many, if any, people that actually read this blog, but anyhow, hope you all spend a wonderful holidays with your family and loved ones.


This isn't the first year in recent history where I'm spending the holidays alone.  Actually, not all alone, I still have my family and friends.  It's not all that different.  I'm trying hard not to think what is he doing this holidays?  I bet it wasn't ditching his new gf to go off to Asia like he did with me last year.  But let's not dig up old wounds.


I'm really not sure what to expect.  I'm sure I will make it out in one piece.  Just really wish I had someone to share it with.  Someone for me to buy a gift, and waiting in anticipation to receive mine.  Maybe ... maybe next year this will happen.  Or it never may.  Who knows.

Never again ...

I think I'm definitely healing.  Although he still comes into my mind a lot, it's less frequent nowadays.  I know one day, he will be completely gone from my life.  I miss the person I fell in love with, the person I spent so much time with in the last two years.  But that person's gone.  We've experienced so much together.  But he's gone.  He will never come back, and I don't want to see him ever again.  I hope I never see him again.  It still hurts.  

Lonely

I don't miss "him" per se ... but just kind of sad how things have turned out.  I i knew we could never be friends again, and it was a joke when he said we could, but that aside, it's so sad to lose someone that once mattered so much to you.  I guess I'm more sad about losing someone who used to be important to me and not sad about losing him.

When i think about it, the thing he said about how he wished he never met me ... I wanted the exact same thing, so I can't be mad for the things he said.  Well, actually, I can. Any civilized human being would not behaved that way. But I'm not angry at that.  I just ... feel a sense of loss.

Right now, if you ask me, and if I could, I would take back the time we've been together. It was one of the best times (and worst) times of my life...

but looking back now, none of that was worth it.

At a loss for words

It has been awhile and definitely, it doesn't hurt as much anymore.  I'm not sure if I am even mad anymore.  I think I'm finally on the road to recovery.  There are moments when I think back to the times we were together.  There are still many things that still remind me of him, but I know that person I loved is long gone.  That person doesn't exist in this world anymore.


It's sad things turned out this way but it is for the best.  I am starting to rediscover myself and no longer devote all my time and attention to make sure he is happy.  Looking back, it seems like it was a waste of effort, everything I did went unappreciated.  Instead, I have this person who openly insulted me and hurt me without a second thought.


I really hope I will never have to see him again.  What he does  is his business, I don't want to know any of it.  I'm not at the point where I can wish him all the best and I don't know if I will ever be able to.  All I know is I deserve better.  I deserve someone who appreciates me, who cares about me, and most importantly, who loves me.